Is There an F-Word™ That May Be Holding You Back from Self-Sufficiency?

What if a handful of small words were standing between you and the career — and the life — you really want?

What if a handful of small words were standing between you and the career — and the life — you really want?

At The Entrepreneur’s Source®, our Career Ownership Coaches® have guided tens of thousands of people who feel stuck in careers that no longer fit. After more than 40 years of this work, a pattern surfaced. The obstacles people describe sound different on the surface, but they almost always trace back to the same five words. We call them the F-Words.

The F-Word™ is not actually a curse word. But a silent force that keeps capable, talented people locked inside careers they have outgrown. Naming them is the first step toward moving past them.

The Five F-Words

1. Frustration. You feel beaten down. Your role has plateaued. The raises shrink, the workdays stretch, and the future feels flat. Frustration is loud — and yet it can be paralyzing. It convinces you that nothing else is possible. 
2. Fear. Fear wears many faces. Fear of change. Fear of the unknown. Fear of failing. Even fear of succeeding. It often disguises itself as “being practical” or “waiting for the right time.” 
3. Finances. Many people assume self-sufficiency is out of reach because of money. They never look closer. They never ask the right questions. Finances become an excuse long before they become a real conversation. 
4. Family. The people closest to you mean well. But their hopes, worries, and expectations can quietly shape every career decision you make — often without you noticing.
5. Friends. Friends weigh in with strong opinions about risk. Some are protective. Some are projecting their own doubts. Either way, their voices can drown out your own.

 

Together, these five F-Word form a wall between where you are now and the Income, Lifestyle, Wealth, and Equity™ goals you say you want.

Which F-Word™ Is Holding YOU Back?

This is the question that changes everything.

Most people carry one F-Word™ that does the heaviest lifting. For one person, it is Fear. For another, it is Family. For a third, Finances. Until you name yours, it runs the show in the background — every time you read a job posting, every time you imagine a different path, every time you talk yourself out of looking.

Sit with the list. Be honest.

• Which one tightens your chest when you read it?
• Which one keeps showing up every time you picture a new chapter?
• Which one have you been quietly negotiating with for years?

That is your F-Word™. That is the work.

 

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Naming Is Not Solving — But It Is the Start

A Career Ownership Coach® does not try to talk you out of your F-Word™. That approach never lasts. Instead, we help you see it clearly, separate the real concern from the inherited belief, and explore whether the path you have been avoiding might actually fit the life you say you want.

The F-Words framework was developed inside The Entrepreneur’s Source® coaching process because too many people were leaving careers, options, and possibilities on the table — not because the options were wrong, but because an unnamed F-Word™ was making the decision for them.

Self-sufficiency is not luck. It is not personality. It is a process. And that process begins the moment you stop letting an F-Word™ run your career.

Ready to Find Out Which F-Word™ Is Steering Your Career?

Connect with a Career Ownership Coach® for a complimentary discovery conversation. We will help you identify your F-Word™, look at it honestly, and explore what becomes possible on the other side of it.

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This post was formerly published on: Oct 28, 2019*

*The Entrepreneur’s Source Explores The F Words that May Hold You Back from Self-Sufficiency

If the pathway to self-sufficiency was free of obstacles and challenges, then everyone would take it. Unfortunately, obstacles and challenges do exist and they sometimes prevent individuals from taking the leap to business ownership.

When an individual starts to consider job opportunities outside of the standard, corporate 9-5 options, they will inevitably run into what The Entrepreneur’s Source calls The F Words: Frustration, Fear, Financial constraints, Family and Friends. Today, The Entrepreneur’s Source examines these obstacles that may be holding people back from reaching their ultimate dream of self-reliance.

Frustration
Those who suffer from the Battered Career Syndrome know frustrations all too well: Feeling unappreciated in the workplace, staying in a dead-end job with no room for growth, not feeling inspired by the work they are doing. When examining frustrations, there are two different kinds: Healthy – the motivational kind, and unhealthy – the form that can become paralyzing. Regardless of if you’re suffering from the healthy or unhealthy kind of frustration, you can learn to channel your frustration by exploring your alternative career options.

Fear
Big or small, we all suffer from fears, but when it comes to fears associated with one’s career, these fears tend to become overwhelming and taxing. Most people worry about limited career options, if they possess transferable skills, keeping up with technology systems and the like. However, when deciding to move from Employment to Empowerment, the biggest fear most people encounter is the fear of self-employment. Other common fears include fear of change, fear of the unknown and fear of success. When an individual is able to recognize these fears and channel them to become motivation, then they truly will have the ability to overcome them.

Financial Constraints
Many people ward off the idea of investing in a business opportunity because they don’t think that they are financially able. However, what most people don’t initially understand is that there is an abundance of ways to finance a business and there are plentiful financing options available to small business owners and franchisees. However, no matter what financial state an individual is in, they will likely be able to find a financing option for their unique needs.

Family and Friends
Family and friends may be the most unlikely of sources that may hold you back from achieving your entrepreneurial dreams, but their holdup may be a reality for some. Whether an individual has the support of his or her friends in achieving their dreams may be the single most important factor whether an individual will eventually decide to leave their traditional career behind. Investing in a business opportunity is a risk, and this sometimes this may worry friends and family members that rely on an aspiring entrepreneur. However, it’s important to remember that staying in a stagnant career is also a risk, and friends and family members should be reminded of this as well.

An individual doesn’t have to experience all four of these obstacles to become debilitated in their ability to become an entrepreneurial, it just takes one. Realizing and being able to identify these obstacles exist is the first step in the process of trying to overcome them and ultimately reaching self-sufficiency.

For more information and assistance with overcoming these obstacles, contact a Career Ownership Coach at The Entrepreneur’s Source today.

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We help them define their Income, Lifestyle, Wealth, and Equity goals and provide education on the best ways to achieve them. We don’t sell franchises – we help people achieve their dreams of self-sufficiency through business ownership. The approach is different, the experience is different. And it works.

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